Advent began on November 30th, and with it comes that all-too-familiar tug to do something most of us would rather avoid: wait. If you’re anything like me, you like 100% satisfaction guarantees. You like irrefutable clarity. You really love things that are nice and tidy and inside the lines. You’re less enthusiastic about “character development” disguised as spilled milk. In other words, you are a deeply human, scrappy soul in need of the Lord of the Universe to bring you back down to earth, or rather, closer to Heaven.
And so, each year, the Church gently draws us into this season, where God reminds us: You are not meant to go it alone. All things are perfected in My timing. I am the One in control.
Scripture sets the tone for us:
“Do not be anxious about anything… but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God… will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” —Philippians 4:6–7
That’s the posture I’m aiming for this year. And one of the best tools I’ve found to anchor me there is a solid Advent guide.
This year, I’m praying with two new journals from Ave Maria Press: Heather Khym’s Encountering Emmanuel and Fr. John Nepil’s Illuminate. Both offer Scripture, thoughtful reflections, guided prayer, and space to wrestle, ponder, and actually let God speak—yet each one guides you along its own distinct path.
So if you’re looking for an Advent journal that doesn’t assume you’re already floating three feet off the ground—but instead meets you in your real life, your real longing, and your real, imperfect waiting—welcome! You’re in the right place. Let’s dive in.
I love that both journals are designed for individuals, small groups, parishes, teens, parents, adults, classrooms—anyone longing for an Advent practice that only requires presence. Morning or night, in ten minutes or thirty, they’re flexible enough to meet you where you are.
Each day follows a very simple pattern:

Heather Khym’s journal is steeped in warmth, honesty, and a very Marian tenderness. If Illuminate is cosmic and theological, Encountering Emmanuel is relational.
Khym structures her reflections around the four reasons for the Incarnation from the Catechism (CCC 457–460):
1. Jesus saves us.
2. He makes us sharers in divine life.
3. He shows us how to live.
4. He reveals God’s love.
“Every single day,” Khym writes, “is a preparation for the coming of Christ.”
A few things I loved:

Fr. John Nepil’s Illuminate is a different kind of ascent into the Advent mystery. Where Khym guides you inward, Fr. Nepil guides you upward—into the luminous theology of St. John’s Prologue: “In the beginning was the Word…”
Each week unfolds a core theme:
1. Word
2. Light
3. Faith
4. Life
“Advent is a journey into darkness,” Fr. Nepil begins. “If we do not embrace the darkness, we cannot welcome the light.”
A few things I loved:
Even with their differences, these two guided Advent journals:
Most importantly, both journals guide you toward Christmas not just as a date on the calendar, but as a renewed encounter with the living God.
Choose Encountering Emmanuel if…
Choose Illuminate if…
Choose both if…
You want the fullness of Advent: the inward and the upward, the healing and the illumination, the crevices of the heart and the vastness of divine light.
Visit Ave Maria Press to explore Encountering Emmanuel and Illuminate, and consider making one of them your companion this season of waiting!

With over eight years of experience and a Bachelor’s in Creative Writing, Marge Hynes is a dynamic writer whose portfolio spans SEO-driven copywriting, journalism, and marketing—a versatile skill set that allows her to craft compelling content for Paloma & Fig’s projects.
Marge’s Catholic faith serves as the cornerstone of her work. She approaches storytelling with thoughtfulness and a deep appreciation for the Lord’s own creative power. Her love of the written word shines through in every project, helping clients articulate their message with clarity, heart, and purpose.
When she’s not writing, Marge can be found leading praise and worship, diving into theological books, or exploring the great outdoors with her loyal dog, Augustine (Auggie for short).
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